How to get out of ABD status?

I have been officially tagged with the unofficial term ABD, as it has been more than 5 years of my PhD with no scope of completing the dissertation. I have completely lost my focus due to my priorities of resolving the issues of my life. And now I just see it as something which is a complete failure. Which is why I need to change that. The question is how? How should I write the dissertation and get it accepted (that is the trickiest part). I am really lost here guys and in serious need of some motivation and tips. Just help me out here!

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